started so beautifully.
encrypted with wonderful contents.
only that the author fails to add in the beautiful happy ending.
like a fallen soul.
thank you.
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1. Be realistic about each other.
Don't try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not. Let's faceit, guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she has had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her physicalappearance is NOT going to change overnite with the help of a few facialsor treatments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so u're gonna have to do with what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what uare. There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye.
2. Always talk things out.
Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions abouteach other's feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partnerundrstands what u're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When u stop talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end.
3. Do stuff together.
Make an effort to do t hings together. Do some sports or involve urselvesin some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strollinghand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccor with him once in a whilethough the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, dogive in if ur gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather thansuggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities"instead. If u're spending more time with ur friends rather than with ur partner, it's a warning sign that u're drifting apart!!!
4. Meet each other halfway.
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The_Rock" print, ushouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room tidy... There's gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn tomeet each other halfway.
5.Show ur love.
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even if u have beentogether for 5years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that u care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card.Knit him mini-socks he can't wear ( like for decoration purposes => ), buyhim a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him...so he knows u can still be romantic and loving despite having been together forquite a while.
6. Respect each other.
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to laughat. Ask urself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse!Love is about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to eachother at all times.
7. Bury the past.
Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don't bring up the happy things about u and ur ex to ur guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys,don't talk about the happy times that u had with ur ex or mention about herin ur every other sentence as it would make ur gal feel un-happy and she might think that u saying all this b'cos u are gonna get back with ur ex ornot interested in her anymore.
8. Sit on ur jealousy.
All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of therelationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If u're gonna go through ur partner's mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping onconversations, u know something is wrong - with u!!! Jealousy is like apoison that slowly spreads thru' the relationship before finall y killing it. Trust ur partner; love has to have trust in it.
9. Keep ur commitments to each other.
If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates andbreaking promises, u need to talk! If u're in a relationship, make ur partner ur priority and don't disappoint them if u can help it. It's reallyterrible when someone promises to take u to dinner, and then calls tocancel it. Don't make promises u can't keep. If ur partner starts to feel that he/she is not important enough to u, u may jus lose him/her.
10. Be honest.
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning,or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say "be honest", we mean expressing <>ur feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. Whenu're hurt, say so, and when u're angry, tell him/her, w/o gettinghysterical. If u can't be honest with ur partner, who can u be honest with? æ Love is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty existsprobably isn't worth it
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